From: Ryan Thomas

Dear Parent,

When I was 26 years old, I finally uncovered the truth no one ever told me:
I hadn’t rejected my Dad on my own — I had been manipulated into it.

I was an alienated child.

For decades, he and I lost a relationship we both desperately needed.
And when I finally saw the truth, everything clicked — the lies I believed, the pressure I lived under, and the traps my loving Dad unknowingly walked into that made things even worse.

Since then, I’ve spent over a decade helping alienated parents around the world understand what really happened, avoid the traps I fell for, and rebuild the relationship they thought was gone forever.

In SABOTAGED! The Weapons of Parental Alienation, I pull back the curtain on the exact strategies and psychological tactics the alienator uses to turn your child against you — the same ones that worked on me.

You’ll see:

How children are programmed to believe “bad things happen when you’re in their life.”
How your influence was quietly dismantled - one decision, one crisis, one moment at a time.
How the alienator removes grandparents, siblings, and loving family to isolate your child.
Why your child won’t reach out… even when they’re free to.

And more importantly -

You’ll see how to use this knowledge to shift your words, actions, and responses so you stop falling into the alienator’s traps and start rebuilding trust with your child.

This book gives you the tools, insights, and behind-the-scenes truth I wish my Dad had years earlier — so you can say, with confidence:

“I’m no longer confused, blindsided, or guessing - I’m informed, prepared, and impossible to manipulate.”

Everything you need is inside.

— Ryan

What You’ll Get Inside

✅ Exactly how your child is programmed to believe that “bad things happen when you show up in their life", and how the controlling parent exploits this belief at every milestone.

✅ If you wonder why your child thinks that they are making all the decisions – and it’s so clear to you that it’s manipulation, I explain it all in chapter 5.

✅ In Chapter six, I show you step-by-step how your influence as a parent is ruined one decision at a time – and your kid doesn’t even realize it. (or what they’re doing)

✅ Why the alienator is so desperate to keep the door shut after communication is cut off (and I’ll show you how they do it.) That’s in Chapter 7.

✅ In chapter 8, I’ll introduce you to the Orphan Complex, this is what keeps your child dependent and loyal to the controlling parent – this stuff will blow your mind and it’s EXACTLY what happened to me.

✅ How the alienator gets your child to delete people from their life who could be good, loving influences – like other members of the family and close friends that are suddenly shut out as well!)

✅ In Chapter 11, I’ll explain WHY your child won’t initiate communication with you or respond to you – EVEN after they are free and away from the alienator…this weapon is the entire reason I rejected my dad through most of my 20’s when I should have known better.

✅ The good news is that despite all the weapons that sabotaged the relationship with me and my Dad, WE REUNITED! I share info about that in chapter 12!

✅ and much more!

...as you can see, SABOTAGED! contains everything I think you’ll need to understand the weapons being used against you, and how to protect yourself from falling into the alienator's traps. (and a bit more).

Your purchase today also includes a BONUS VIDEO; "Creating Stability for Your Child." When you purchase you'll get instant access to your members area where you can download your book or Audiobook and watch the video.

I know this seems like information overload, but I've done my best to organize SABOTAGED! so you'll be able to immediately gain new insights...

...while having a blueprint you can follow to be many steps ahead of the alienator by knowing their tricks in advance, so you can stay focused on the big picture - saving your relationship.

PLUS: Real Parent Case Studies, Check-Ins & BONUS Video Training

✔ Parent Case Studies

Stories of real alienated parents share what they tried, what backfired, and the hidden dynamics, and the progress they've made.

✔ Reflection Check-Ins

Short guided questions throughout the book help you process what you’re learning and connect it to your own story.

✔ BONUS VIDEO — “Creating Stability for Your Child”

Learn the #1 strategy that beats the alienator at their own game: STABILITY.
You’ll discover:

How alienators use instability to maintain control
How last-minute chaos and emotional volatility are manufactured
How you can become the steady, dependable parent your child gravitates back toward
The exact stability method I teach parents to rebuild trust

Use this Stability Method to re-create a dependable bond with your child, that reminds them you are a good, loving parent...NO COST with your purchase today.

If your once-loving child is now…

…blaming you for everything wrong in their life
…throwing court details or twisted “facts” at you
…accusing you of abandoning them
…repeating lies that you never imagined they’d believe
…lashing out with anger, rejection, and hostility
…refusing calls, ignoring texts, or rejecting your family
…shutting down every attempt you make to show up

and you’re left wondering how it got this bad — and what you can possibly do about it…

SABOTAGED!shows you exactly why it’s happening, how it works, and how you can start turning it around.

If you’re ready to finally understand the alienator’s tactics - and learn how to beat them at their own game - this book is your roadmap.ild could never say -
and the love that was always there, waiting to be seen.

About the Author, Ryan Thomas

I wasn’t supposed to see the truth.

For most of my life, I was the alienated child — fully convinced that one parent was dangerous, unloving, and not worth keeping in my life.

There was a 10-year blackout period where I had absolutely no contact with my dad… and I truly believed I didn’t want any.

But the truth has a way of breaking through.

In my late 20s, the fog lifted. I reconnected with my dad, saw the manipulation for what it was, and realized just how deeply alienation had shaped the way I thought, felt, and behaved.

That lived experience is why I do this work.

For more than a decade, I’ve helped alienated parents in over 25 countries understand what happened, rebuild their strength, and reconnect with their children — using the same behind-the-scenes insight that changed my life.

My work has been featured on ABC, FOX, MSNBC, iHeartRadio, Entrepreneur, and US News & World Report, and I’ve had the privilege of working with organizations such as Microsoft, The White House, Lockheed Martin, Best Buy Mobile, and the American Heart Association.

I’m also the author of Confessions of an Alienated Child and the creator of the Get Them Back program — all built from one mission:

To show you what was really happening behind your child’s rejection…
and give you the truth I wish someone had given my dad.

— Ryan Thomas
Adult Child of Parental Alienation

Know the Hidden Weapons

of Parental Alienation